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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 14:53:56 GMT -5
Ok, this is kinda confusing. I like this guy, and I'm not sure how much he likes me. This weekend we got to spend some time together, but I was really forward. I think I might have scared him a little. In situations like this, I usually try to back away a little. Is that a good idea? Cause I still want him to know I like him, but I don't want to be pushy and clingy. I want to give him some space.
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 15:18:13 GMT -5
Giving him space is good, but not too much where he's "out of your reach". Continue to drop hints here and there, and i think what you did this weekend was fine. If he didnt like it, he wouldnt have stuck around like he did. Or had all that fun you two had (*coughbus-ride-homecough*)
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 15:26:27 GMT -5
hehe yeah, but he seemed kinda distracted on saturday... he didn't really want to talk to me.
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 15:30:52 GMT -5
He was probably just nervous.
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 15:31:53 GMT -5
He didn't seem nervous, just... distant.
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 15:36:28 GMT -5
oh, i'd say just give him a little bit of space. But dont make it look so obvious that you're backing away. Do you get what im saying?
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 15:37:04 GMT -5
not completely.
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 15:48:07 GMT -5
ok, i'll try and explain better.
Dont make it apparent that you're backing away, like totally ignore him or avoiding him. Still do stuff with him, maybe just not as much as normal. Do more stuff with Jeseka. Stuff like that.
Was that clearer?
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 15:48:41 GMT -5
Yeah, it makes sense.
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 15:51:05 GMT -5
*phew* Cuz i didnt think i could make it any clearer, lol.
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 15:53:30 GMT -5
lol.
Oh, did I tell you he smiled at me today?
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 15:59:10 GMT -5
NO! You havent told me anything!
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 16:03:41 GMT -5
*kicks self*
Mr. B was talking about putting a banner message on a router, and I said, "every time you log on" which had been part of the contest, and Mr. B didn't understand it cause he wasn't there at the time, but I looked over his head to Mark, and he was smiling at me (cause he remembered from the contest.
But I was too shy to look at him after that.
Sorry if that was really confusing!
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Post by Arya on Mar 28, 2005 16:06:45 GMT -5
aww!
it wasnt confusing to me.
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Post by admin on Mar 28, 2005 16:08:13 GMT -5
Yeah, maybe I didn't really freak him out... maybe i scared myself.
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