GROSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Lady]

ok here is the story and i need advice.

a couple of months ago my friend set me up on the phone with her Ex. we had been talking and it was cool. well, lately we have been talking a LOT like everyday and i was like ok well i think its time we meet. he was like ok i work at the mall come down and visit me. so i went yesterday with a friend and found out that he is BUTT UGLY. I mean words can't describe how ugly he is. i know that sounds extremely mean but its true. well he called me last night after he got off work and i just rejected his phone call. my friend thinks that i shouldnt be so cold and i should just call him and tell him i just want to be friends, but i cant talk to him. i am afriad i will say something mean because i cant lie if he asks me what i thought of him and i just would much rather ignore him. WHAT SHOULD I ???DO??

[hoarpumpkin]

well, it's pretty shallow, but if you're really that repulsed by him, there's no use pushing yourself, leading him on, and trying to convince yourself it's not a big deal when it is.

[Skylarking]

No sense being with someone you're not attracted to. Pity it had to end in such a shallow manner.

[gopher]

colleen said:

No sense being with someone you're not attracted to. Pity it had to end in such a shallow manner.

Dittoness.

[Lady]

hoarpumpkin said:

well, it's pretty shallow

I know it is, and I feel HORRIBLE about it. We talked and we are just going to be friends. He is great talking to over the phone though. I still feel bad that it turned out so badly

[psycho*]

just tell him that u want to be friends. there is nothing wrong with talking and hanging out with "ugly" guys. it shouldn't be about looks anyway. talk to a person becuase you like their personality. my cousin married this really hot guy (like, back in the early 90's) He was so hott, but he beat the s*** out of her and their son. Now they are divorced, he has cancer, and is no longer hott. It really sucks that people look for looks instead of personality.