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Post by deansgirl311 on Jul 9, 2005 16:06:09 GMT -5
Alright, so I dated this guy for 3 months. We had a long-distance thing going for us and it was going fine. Then one day he said it wasn't working out and he dumped me. He said we still had a chance at are relationship, we just needed to take things slowly. So he goes to camp. When he comes back he told me he had a new girlfriend, and he was being quite a jerk to me. Then he saw some more recent pictures of me and called me hot. Then told me he would dump his girlfriend for me if i lived by him still. He still talks to me and says he loves me. And calls me his girl. He is basically cheating on us both in a way. I mean, it doesn't make sense to me. He calls me his girl, and says I love you to me. But he amkes out with his girlfriend and stuff then tells me about it. I'm like confused by it.
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Jul 9, 2005 17:50:38 GMT -5
so is this still long-distance? I dunno, either way, I think it's lame and wouldn't deal with it anymore. it's like he has an emotional thing with you and a physical thing with her... that's not really caring about you, is it? I think you can find someone who loves you and doesn't get booty from anyone else.
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Post by deansgirl311 on Jul 9, 2005 19:13:42 GMT -5
Well yeah, thats the thing. It's still long distance. but he is going to college like 20 mintues from here. So it wont be long-distance anymore. I'ts like he wants a relationship, but he wants to have sex with other girls until then.
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Jul 9, 2005 20:38:19 GMT -5
well, I'd still let it go. I mean, he's already dumped you once, been a jerk, AND is still fooling around with other girls... that doesn't sound like he respects you very much. Plus there'll still be just as much, if not more, temptation to hook up with girls when he gets to college, even though it's close. I think you could find a healthier relationship
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Post by deansgirl311 on Jul 9, 2005 22:26:50 GMT -5
Like I read the letter's he writes me. And the messages he leaves on my phone and they sound so committed. I know its right that I let it go, but he is to convincing. It's..
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Jul 9, 2005 22:47:35 GMT -5
actions speak louder than words... yea it's an old cliche, but that doesn't make it any less true, in cases like this anyway
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