Post by rosey on Oct 3, 2005 10:13:55 GMT -5
Blah, okay I know I posted this on gp, but I'm going to repost it here because you guys actually give advice not "U sholdn't B lokin @ aNOTHER grl!!!!11".
Okay, so there's this girl at my youth group who is like dead gorgeous. And I'm finding myself attracted to her. Not just for her looks. I pity her last relationship, which ended thank goodness. She was dating my ex boyfriend and he was just using her for sex. And, well, I find myself falling for her more and more every day. I wrote her a letter about a month ago saying how I find myself attracted to her and all. And she said that she isn't sure if she has any feelings for me or not. =\
So I let it go, tried to move on. But I just CAN'T. Her personality is just so awesome. We've flirted some times, but then other times she just flirts with guys and stuff. I know she's bi, so that isn't at question. And it's driving me crazy. We haven't kissed or anything--not even cuddle. But she's signaled some, what I took as, possible interest. But I don't know. We only see each other once a week, and we live 30 minutes away. So it's not like we could just go over to each others houses whenever we want. Plus she's only going to be 16 soon. I'll be 18 in December. Not that age matters to me, but she'll be getting a job and everything. I don't know. I just find myself more than attracted to her. I'm infatuated and fascinated.
Weird thing is, normally when I think a girl is "hott" and am somewhat attracted to her, I end up having sexual thoughts and dreams about her. But I haven't with this one. I don't want to say that I love her, because I don't think that I CAN love her unless I get to know her better. But I like her so so much. I feel pain when she does. I just want to wrap her up in my arms and shelter her from all harm.
Oh, and a sidenote: all of my friends are playful. So that doesn't help when deciding if she likes me or not. One of my best friends ((who is engaged, but finds me beautiful. Good thing her fiance's okay with us 'experimenting')) is always holding my hand and kissing me on the lips, and hugging and for some reason she has this fascination with pinching my breasts and butt.
it's creepy, lol
So yea, what do you guys think? What should I do? I want to make a move, but if she doesn't feel anything then it's almost guarenteed not to work out. I just need help ._.
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Okay, so there's this girl at my youth group who is like dead gorgeous. And I'm finding myself attracted to her. Not just for her looks. I pity her last relationship, which ended thank goodness. She was dating my ex boyfriend and he was just using her for sex. And, well, I find myself falling for her more and more every day. I wrote her a letter about a month ago saying how I find myself attracted to her and all. And she said that she isn't sure if she has any feelings for me or not. =\
So I let it go, tried to move on. But I just CAN'T. Her personality is just so awesome. We've flirted some times, but then other times she just flirts with guys and stuff. I know she's bi, so that isn't at question. And it's driving me crazy. We haven't kissed or anything--not even cuddle. But she's signaled some, what I took as, possible interest. But I don't know. We only see each other once a week, and we live 30 minutes away. So it's not like we could just go over to each others houses whenever we want. Plus she's only going to be 16 soon. I'll be 18 in December. Not that age matters to me, but she'll be getting a job and everything. I don't know. I just find myself more than attracted to her. I'm infatuated and fascinated.
Weird thing is, normally when I think a girl is "hott" and am somewhat attracted to her, I end up having sexual thoughts and dreams about her. But I haven't with this one. I don't want to say that I love her, because I don't think that I CAN love her unless I get to know her better. But I like her so so much. I feel pain when she does. I just want to wrap her up in my arms and shelter her from all harm.
Oh, and a sidenote: all of my friends are playful. So that doesn't help when deciding if she likes me or not. One of my best friends ((who is engaged, but finds me beautiful. Good thing her fiance's okay with us 'experimenting')) is always holding my hand and kissing me on the lips, and hugging and for some reason she has this fascination with pinching my breasts and butt.
it's creepy, lol So yea, what do you guys think? What should I do? I want to make a move, but if she doesn't feel anything then it's almost guarenteed not to work out. I just need help ._.
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