Post by Skylarking on Oct 22, 2005 12:23:49 GMT -5
As you probably guessed, I'ma ask some advice about a boy.
I met DJ almost a month ago on the way to a Peer Sexual Health Education Conference. We hit it off, and I immediately found myself attracted to him. We flirted all of the second of three days there, even kissing and canoodling. We talked the four hour ride back to the West Kootenays, and I was terribly sad to leave him behind. At the same time, I felt like **** because he had a girlfriend. He was planning on breaking up with her, but I know that doesn't make it better.
We're both lazy fiddlesticksers and didn't bother getting phone numbers or email addresses from anyone at the conference, so it was sure a surprise when he called me last week. He said he asked so many people, and tried so hard to find my number which he'd normally never do for someone. (<3) Three days ago I went to visit him in Traill. That was awesome. ^_^
But, he still has that girlfiend. Only now it's a semi-open relationship; He's allowed to kiss other people, as long as he tells her about it, and vice versa.
So I don't know quite what I should do. I'm definately infatuated with him, and the feelings are returned. However, I don't want to come between hm and his girlfriend. No, I want to, but I know that's not a respectable thing to do. So I could continue to meet him on rare occasions and let things get physical like they did last time? No, then I'll only get more attached and upset because he's taken. I'm thinking now that I should just cut off contact with him. He also lives almost an hour and a half away from me. This sucks a little for me though, because the only other person I've had feelings quite this strong for would be Summer. And I'm not going to get into that.
Anyway, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I met DJ almost a month ago on the way to a Peer Sexual Health Education Conference. We hit it off, and I immediately found myself attracted to him. We flirted all of the second of three days there, even kissing and canoodling. We talked the four hour ride back to the West Kootenays, and I was terribly sad to leave him behind. At the same time, I felt like **** because he had a girlfriend. He was planning on breaking up with her, but I know that doesn't make it better.
We're both lazy fiddlesticksers and didn't bother getting phone numbers or email addresses from anyone at the conference, so it was sure a surprise when he called me last week. He said he asked so many people, and tried so hard to find my number which he'd normally never do for someone. (<3) Three days ago I went to visit him in Traill. That was awesome. ^_^
But, he still has that girlfiend. Only now it's a semi-open relationship; He's allowed to kiss other people, as long as he tells her about it, and vice versa.
So I don't know quite what I should do. I'm definately infatuated with him, and the feelings are returned. However, I don't want to come between hm and his girlfriend. No, I want to, but I know that's not a respectable thing to do. So I could continue to meet him on rare occasions and let things get physical like they did last time? No, then I'll only get more attached and upset because he's taken. I'm thinking now that I should just cut off contact with him. He also lives almost an hour and a half away from me. This sucks a little for me though, because the only other person I've had feelings quite this strong for would be Summer. And I'm not going to get into that.
Anyway, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
