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Post by hoarpumpkin on Nov 30, 2005 19:54:11 GMT -5
Short question: Should I suggest hanging out with someone through Facebook? background: dunno him well... at ALL. Dun see him except by chance crossings on campus. Met him by hooking up at a frat party. BUT! he remembered me a few days later when we crossed paths and was very friendly and greeted me first and we had a little chat. I then friended him on facebook after thanksgiving break. So christmas break is 2 weeks away (less than that even). Part of me has a largely unfounded attraction to this guy, and another part of me wants to practice being outgoing and socially aggressive anyway, so what better way to start than by giong after men I want? However, if I leave it to a chance meeting, it's unlikely to ever happen. So, the question: Should I send him a message on facebook suggesting we get together before break?
yea, it sounds a little desperate, but it's not like I'm going to go making proclamations of love or be crushed if I'm refused. it's just part of my attempts to start making and taking opportunities for myself- not idly waiting for them to float by
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Post by Skylarking on Nov 30, 2005 20:04:52 GMT -5
If you like him and you're trying to be more outgoing, it's totally worth a try.
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Nov 30, 2005 20:41:16 GMT -5
hmm see, my only issue is the semi-stalkerishness implied by facebook. but, he DID confirm me...
*le sigh*
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Post by ava on Dec 1, 2005 23:39:31 GMT -5
might as well give it a try
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Post by Skylarking on Dec 1, 2005 23:55:21 GMT -5
Stalkerish? Maybe. 'Course, I don't even really know what a facebook is.
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Dec 2, 2005 0:00:50 GMT -5
facebook=college student directory type thing. Profiles and such, pictures. Loads of personal information
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Post by Skylarking on Dec 2, 2005 0:39:00 GMT -5
I figured, actually. Still doesn't seem all that desperate to me.
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Dec 2, 2005 21:31:57 GMT -5
well, the deed has been done Almost a full 24 hours ago, but still no response yet.... eek
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Post by grimchild on Dec 3, 2005 20:47:30 GMT -5
Aw, He will soon. If not, hunt him down one late night. Then kiss him. :-D haha.
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Post by hoarpumpkin on Dec 4, 2005 14:52:09 GMT -5
so yea, definitely a mistake
blah
*shut down*
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