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Post by sex ees gud on Dec 2, 2005 20:27:41 GMT -5
 Why. Why do you run your hands through my hair and kiss me on the cheek and call me hot stuff and make me not be able to figure out if you are actually hitting on me or just playing? WHY. When i first met her she said she was straight. She also has a boyfriend, but she flirts SO MUCH with me and i want her. However, i can't figure out how to tell whether she is interested or playing... |
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Post by Skylarking on Dec 2, 2005 20:36:33 GMT -5
Urg, I hate it when they do that.
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Post by sex ees gud on Dec 2, 2005 20:42:31 GMT -5
i cant tell if i hate it or love it. I've talked to several people and explained how she flirts with me and stuff, and they say that's more than just playing. But she has a boyfriend. And how do i tell if she is just vigorously playing or actually has an interest in me? I wish she would come up to me and say, "I'm just playing." or just come up to me and kiss me full on. i need an answer, but i'm afraid that it will be the first one and all this fun will stop...
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Post by ava on Dec 2, 2005 21:45:11 GMT -5
you could just ask her [/****ty advice] or come on to her and see how she takes it
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Post by Skylarking on Dec 2, 2005 22:33:59 GMT -5
Mhm, but would she know you were serious, or just think you're messing around?
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Post by sex ees gud on Dec 2, 2005 23:19:47 GMT -5
That's the thing. I mean, i don't want to come out and ask, "Okay, i'm confused. Are we still playing or are you actually hitting on me?" because i don't want to scare her off and i don't want to ruin our friendship. And even still, i am very flirtatious with a lot of people, but i try to be more flirtatious with her. So...i dunno. I'm not really sure what to make of the situation or what to do, because if she is interested, i've been ready for this to go somewhere. One of my friends said to just kiss her, but for one thing, if we're still just playing...i think that will be a bit much and scare her away, and for another thing, i'm not sure i can muster up the guts to just randomly kiss her...
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Post by ava on Dec 2, 2005 23:42:24 GMT -5
get drunk (or high) and then kiss her, then if she takes it well, woot!, but if she takes it badly you can blame it on being drunk/stoned.
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Post by sex ees gud on Dec 3, 2005 0:20:55 GMT -5
Not a bad idea.
She has a boyfriend, though. I think as long as they are together i'm just going to assume she loves him. Makes things less complicated.
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Post by Skylarking on Dec 3, 2005 2:02:21 GMT -5
Ahhh, that complicates things. I would suggest to continue with harmless flirting while she has a boyfriend.
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Post by sex ees gud on Dec 3, 2005 12:21:35 GMT -5
oh, i never said i would stop the harmless flirting  . I think the biggest thing that bums me out is that i was fine with our playful flirting. I had a crush on her because she's...well look at her, she's gorgeous, and amazing. But i could deal with it and had no problem with it at all because i knew that beyond flirting it was off limits. But now it's reached a level where i don't know what's up. I talked to her friend and she said she loved her boyfriend, so i thought that cleared the matters up and was happy, but then she said that Stephanie would probably like to try new things if she didn't have a boyfriend. So that didn't help me at all, because now i'm back to wondering if there would be a possibility if she broke up with her boyfriend. Alas, i shall just continue to play and keep an eye out for non lip-stick lesbians that rock. |
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Post by grimchild on Dec 3, 2005 20:45:34 GMT -5
hahahaha. Sorry.
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