OddSock
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My Pancake Will Eat You If You Don't Obey Me.
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Post by OddSock on Nov 10, 2004 17:24:31 GMT -5
Okay this was a bit confusing...
You're telling me.
First off, what happend between him and your friend? It seems as if he did something extremely bad for your parents to be going ballistic, but it was over the net so I don't see how there could be such a big ordeal.
I don't really know. But whatever it was, it was big enough for her (my friend's) parents to call a lawyer. MY parents aren't going balistic. they just forbade me from contacting him.
And you want to get him to stop contacting you right? or are you trying to reconcile things with him or what?
Both. Well, I don't really want him to stop, but he must. But I can't contact him to tell him *yanks hair*
And what was wrong with your friend calling him....
When someone calls you, even if you don't have caller ID, you can find out who they are and where they live. Alos, my friend has 'issues' (cutting, minor anorexia, considering suicide/running away.) and the parents of my friend were worried he would come and take her away or something. or that she would run away to meet him.
what exactly do you need help with?
*sighs* what do I do now?
sorry if I'm just missing everything, but I'm a little confused.
Me 2.
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Post by sugarsparkles on Nov 10, 2004 22:26:37 GMT -5
If you're askin me, I'd be honored. cool where do u live? lol |
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Post by Arya on Nov 11, 2004 12:24:45 GMT -5
The other day, I finally asked the guy I liked out (I have liked him for about a year now). Well, he said no b/c he'd recently been hurt and he didn't want to get into another relationship for a long time. I understand that. But, the day after at school (yesterday), he was waiting infront of the building of his 1st period, which I've never seen him do. (My 1st period is in the parallel hallway, so wait outside the same building with my friend(s)). It seemed he wanted to "stalk" me or say something to me, but didn't. Well, then I see him in between 4th and 5th period. Well, he was then making it a point to avoid me, but that didn't happen, b/c I almost ran into him (on accident). Do you think I totally alienated him? Do you think something is going on in his head (you know what I mean.)
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Post by eadg on Nov 11, 2004 17:49:02 GMT -5
The other day, I finally asked the guy I liked out (I have liked him for about a year now). Well, he said no b/c he'd recently been hurt and he didn't want to get into another relationship for a long time. I understand that. But, the day after at school (yesterday), he was waiting infront of the building of his 1st period, which I've never seen him do. (My 1st period is in the parallel hallway, so wait outside the same building with my friend(s)). It seemed he wanted to "stalk" me or say something to me, but didn't. Well, then I see him in between 4th and 5th period. Well, he was then making it a point to avoid me, but that didn't happen, b/c I almost ran into him (on accident). Do you think I totally alienated him? Do you think something is going on in his head (you know what I mean.) Well I can tell you this. He probably does like you, or he wouldn't be acting all weird. I'm not exactly sure what is going on, but I would say to wait and see what happens tomorrow and see if he is acting the same or not. Post back here about what you noticed and I can make a better judgement on the situation.... who knows, maybe he did need to tell you something, but got nervous. He may talk to you tomorrow, just tell me what happens. |
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Post by Alicia on Nov 11, 2004 19:01:58 GMT -5
ok here's how it goes...I just recently moved from florida to north carolina...i left a lot of great friends...one in particular is my best friend jordan (he's a guy). he and i have not gone more than a day without spending at least a half hour on the phone at night...plus all the times we have text messaged during the day...let's face it, i love him...he tells me he loves me...ALL THE TIME...all his friends (which are my friends too) tell me he can't stop talking about me...he has never kissed a girl, never really like/loved a girl...it's been 5 months that i've been gone and we've still kept that close. He is being amazing and coming to see me for thanksgiving...i miss him so much...he's buying the three hundred dollar plane tickets to get here and back just for me...he and i have made this "unoffical" agreement that we don't want to do anything that we will regret and we don't want do try anything that will complicate our "friendship" even though we both know its much more than that...EVERYONE including my own parents who've had to put up with all the long distance phone calls, all his friends down there, and all my friends up here/down there, say that i should kiss him...should i? he's never kissed a girl in his entire life and he told me that he almost did the day i left...i feel like i'll be taking his first kiss away from him...what should i do...?
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Post by Arya on Nov 11, 2004 19:05:26 GMT -5
Well I can tell you this. He probably does like you, or he wouldn't be acting all weird. I'm not exactly sure what is going on, but I would say to wait and see what happens tomorrow and see if he is acting the same or not. Post back here about what you noticed and I can make a better judgement on the situation.... who knows, maybe he did need to tell you something, but got nervous. He may talk to you tomorrow, just tell me what happens. [glow=black,2,300] Ok, I'll definatly post tomorrow (I had no school today).[/glow] |
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Post by eadg on Nov 11, 2004 22:44:20 GMT -5
ok here's how it goes...I just recently moved from florida to north carolina...i left a lot of great friends...one in particular is my best friend jordan (he's a guy). he and i have not gone more than a day without spending at least a half hour on the phone at night...plus all the times we have text messaged during the day...let's face it, i love him...he tells me he loves me...ALL THE TIME...all his friends (which are my friends too) tell me he can't stop talking about me...he has never kissed a girl, never really like/loved a girl...it's been 5 months that i've been gone and we've still kept that close. He is being amazing and coming to see me for thanksgiving...i miss him so much...he's buying the three hundred dollar plane tickets to get here and back just for me...he and i have made this "unoffical" agreement that we don't want to do anything that we will regret and we don't want do try anything that will complicate our "friendship" even though we both know its much more than that...EVERYONE including my own parents who've had to put up with all the long distance phone calls, all his friends down there, and all my friends up here/down there, say that i should kiss him...should i? he's never kissed a girl in his entire life and he told me that he almost did the day i left...i feel like i'll be taking his first kiss away from him...what should i do...? From what you write, it seems that you are the rightful heir to that first kiss. I say that if the right moment comes (and it better if he's flying to come see you...wow) that you should. I don't see why he would regret it. And you relationship won't get "complicated." Love is a simple feeling.... go for it. |
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Post by Kianaruby on Nov 12, 2004 12:51:55 GMT -5
This guy that I know for sure likes me asked me "Do you like to smell farts?" (he was joking). I am not sure why he did this. Do you think he was trying to get me to notice him and pay attention to him or maybe get a reaction out of me? I really don't know since it is a really strange thing to ask.
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Post by Arya on Nov 12, 2004 15:22:45 GMT -5
Well, I said I'd tell you what happened today, so I will. I was completely and totally ignored/avoided today by him. No other way to put it.
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Post by eadg on Nov 12, 2004 16:27:22 GMT -5
Well, I said I'd tell you what happened today, so I will. I was completely and totally ignored/avoided today by him. No other way to put it. Well I don't like to say that I guy would do this, but we are all different. He may be trying to avoid you because he doesn't want you to get attached or he doesn't know what to say now that he knows that you like him. Maybe he really is hurt and is just trying to recover. I say give him about a week (2 at the most) and ask him how he feels about you two dating. Until then try and get a conversation going and let him know that everything is cool even though he said no to you. You have to talk now or everything will go down the drain... Hope this helps. |
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Post by admin on Nov 12, 2004 16:35:48 GMT -5
I took a picture of the guy I like (he likes me too) today, and he didn't really want me to, but he gave in anyway... do you think that was rude of me? Do you think he might be mad?
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Post by Arya on Nov 12, 2004 18:03:11 GMT -5
Well I don't like to say that I guy would do this, but we are all different. He may be trying to avoid you because he doesn't want you to get attached or he doesn't know what to say now that he knows that you like him. Maybe he really is hurt and is just trying to recover. I say give him about a week (2 at the most) and ask him how he feels about you two dating. Until then try and get a conversation going and let him know that everything is cool even though he said no to you. You have to talk now or everything will go down the drain... Hope this helps. Well, he has known that I like him for about 7 months now, so that shouldn't have been a shcok to him. About getting attached, it's kinda late to try and avoid it, for I am attached. I would try and get a convo going (that's what I did last time when Bri spilt the beans. Long story. If you want it, I'll post it.) but I have to be able to be in his presance to speak to him. Phone convo's arn't the greatest between us. Face to face is better in my opinion. |
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Post by eadg on Nov 12, 2004 18:46:36 GMT -5
I took a picture of the guy I like (he likes me too) today, and he didn't really want me to, but he gave in anyway... do you think that was rude of me? Do you think he might be mad? no... you were just being a girl... he knows that. |
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Post by eadg on Nov 12, 2004 18:49:30 GMT -5
This guy that I know for sure likes me asked me "Do you like to smell farts?" (he was joking). I am not sure why he did this. Do you think he was trying to get me to notice him and pay attention to him or maybe get a reaction out of me? I really don't know since it is a really strange thing to ask. I garantee it was something that wasn't supposed to be remembered... just something to amuse you, but yea he was definately wanting attention, but he was just being goofy. Almost sounds like something I would say. I'm very random, everyone says so. |
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Post by eadg on Nov 12, 2004 18:51:58 GMT -5
Well, he has known that I like him for about 7 months now, so that shouldn't have been a shcok to him. About getting attached, it's kinda late to try and avoid it, for I am attached. I would try and get a convo going (that's what I did last time when Bri spilt the beans. Long story. If you want it, I'll post it.) but I have to be able to be in his presance to speak to him. Phone convo's arn't the greatest between us. Face to face is better in my opinion. Yea I don't recommend phone conversation (I recomend AIM if you both have it), but yeah face to face is good. Try to get a conversation going somehow.... Make him warm up to you again. |
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