|
|
Post by tracey on Nov 16, 2004 20:28:40 GMT -5
ok, i REALLY like this guy. he's a year younger than me, which makes it kinda weird, but that's not the point. ive liked him at the end of last year, not over the summer, but now i like him again. my best friend is one of his friends and he's trying to get us together, but i dont want it to be obvious that i like him, yet. what i do wanna kno if he likes me. last year we went camping together, and we were really close.....if my hands were cold, he'd warm them up for me....then later we went to a cancer walk together where we stayed over night, and it was FREEZING tht night and he let me rest my head on his shoulder, he gave me his swearshirt to wear even though he was just wearing a tshirt underneath. it seems like he likes me when we spend a lot of time together but if we just see eachother, it's not the same. sumthimes when i see him, i'll talk to him for a little while, but then he'll leave and go talk to someone else, and it seems like he doesnt like me. im so confused, please help!  |
|
|
|
Post by Arya on Nov 17, 2004 15:43:36 GMT -5
What do you look for in a girl?
|
|
|
|
Post by glittergal on Nov 17, 2004 16:19:10 GMT -5
What do you look for in a girl? wow, i was gonna ask the same thing! lol..and what does it mean when a guy teases u all the time...but he's weird about it! lol |
|
|
|
Post by eadg on Nov 17, 2004 17:10:51 GMT -5
ok, i REALLY like this guy. he's a year younger than me, which makes it kinda weird, but that's not the point. ive liked him at the end of last year, not over the summer, but now i like him again. my best friend is one of his friends and he's trying to get us together, but i dont want it to be obvious that i like him, yet. what i do wanna kno if he likes me. last year we went camping together, and we were really close.....if my hands were cold, he'd warm them up for me....then later we went to a cancer walk together where we stayed over night, and it was FREEZING tht night and he let me rest my head on his shoulder, he gave me his swearshirt to wear even though he was just wearing a tshirt underneath. it seems like he likes me when we spend a lot of time together but if we just see eachother, it's not the same. sumthimes when i see him, i'll talk to him for a little while, but then he'll leave and go talk to someone else, and it seems like he doesnt like me. im so confused, please help! Is it easy for y'all to talk about anything? If the conversation seems forced, then he may just be trying to avoid awkward moments. A guy that does the things that you mentioned is into you. It may just be that he has lots of friends and has to "make his rounds" so to speak. And for guys, I think it's a little harder to show affection in public. Get together with him like you did with the camping and the cancer walk and you can get the chance to move in further. |
|
|
|
Post by eadg on Nov 17, 2004 17:26:45 GMT -5
What do you look for in a girl? It's kinda weird really, but I guess I would say cuteness. Like she's sometimes a little ditzy, but not to an extreme, only here and there. I would say smaller girls are cute, too (I like to know that I could punt her across the room if I were for some odd reason urged to). I kinda like innocence as well. I prefer for her not to do drugs (alcohol is a drug), not to have a wide knowledge of sex and the sort. I definately need a girl with a good sense of humor (she would have to laugh at my jokes and "randomness"). I prefer a Christian girl, but I'm not limited unless she is against Christianity. And last of all, it's cool if she likes me back... I guess that's it. These are general and I do make exceptions on some things, but I won't make exceptions on the drug thing and being against Christianity. As far as looking for a girl, I don't really. Sometimes I'll just find a girl that I somehow click with. |
|
|
|
Post by Arya on Nov 17, 2004 17:34:17 GMT -5
(I like to know that I could punt her across the room if I were for some odd reason urged to). And why would you want to do that? it's cool if she likes me back... That always helps. But I don't see how a girl couldn't not like you, you seem like a really sweet, great guy. |
|
|
|
Post by eadg on Nov 17, 2004 20:31:11 GMT -5
And why would you want to do that? That always helps. But I don't see how a girl couldn't not like you, you seem like a really sweet, great guy. Awww, you're too kind. The whole punting thing is something I say. Like I was in the school parking lot and this girl drove by in a Mazda Miata. I then looked at my friend and said, "look! I could punt that thing if I wanted." I'm kinda weird like that. |
|
|
|
Post by glittergal on Nov 17, 2004 21:13:47 GMT -5
Awww, you're too kind. The whole punting thing is something I say. Like I was in the school parking lot and this girl drove by in a Mazda Miata. I then looked at my friend and said, "look! I could punt that thing if I wanted." I'm kinda weird like that. lol..this guy in my computer class is..different..like one day he messed up my hair, then we'll just be sittin there and he'll randomly hit my arm(not hard) lol..and I'm like ....? ok..wat was that for? then he'll be like i hate you! I'm like ok...He's like j/k..then he told me to hit him lol..so i did and he's like harder! so i did and he's like oooww! yeh, he's cute, but strangely different...lol |
|
|
|
Post by eadg on Nov 18, 2004 0:59:00 GMT -5
Yes, every once in the while I'll do stuff like that. A lot of the time I just crack jokes and state really stupid puns and then I laugh like it was the funniest thing I ever heard.... yeah i'm cool.
|
|
|
|
Post by eadg on Nov 18, 2004 1:01:44 GMT -5
wow, i was gonna ask the same thing! lol..and what does it mean when a guy teases u all the time...but he's weird about it! lol If it's that guy in you computer class that you were talking of, then he's just being weird. He may like you, but he's probably just being weird. |
|
|
|
Post by glittergal on Nov 18, 2004 10:44:06 GMT -5
It's kinda weird really, but I guess I would say cuteness. Like she's sometimes a little ditzy, but not to an extreme, only here and there. I would say smaller girls are cute, too (I like to know that I could punt her across the room if I were for some odd reason urged to). I kinda like innocence as well. I prefer for her not to do drugs (alcohol is a drug), not to have a wide knowledge of sex and the sort. I definately need a girl with a good sense of humor (she would have to laugh at my jokes and "randomness"). I prefer a Christian girl, but I'm not limited unless she is against Christianity. And last of all, it's cool if she likes me back... I guess that's it. These are general and I do make exceptions on some things, but I won't make exceptions on the drug thing and being against Christianity. As far as looking for a girl, I don't really. Sometimes I'll just find a girl that I somehow click with. cool, you would like me then  but like why don't u want her to have alot of knowledge about sex? |
|
|
|
Post by glittergal on Nov 18, 2004 10:59:13 GMT -5
Yes, every once in the while I'll do stuff like that. A lot of the time I just crack jokes and state really stupid puns and then I laugh like it was the funniest thing I ever heard.... yeah i'm cool. lol! |
|
|
|
Post by Arya on Nov 18, 2004 19:22:34 GMT -5
Awww, you're too kind. The whole punting thing is something I say. Like I was in the school parking lot and this girl drove by in a Mazda Miata. I then looked at my friend and said, "look! I could punt that thing if I wanted." I'm kinda weird like that. Well, it's the truth (about a girl not being able to like you.) Lol about the Miata. You could probably punt my dream car as well. A blue Volkswagon New Beetle! |
|
|
|
Post by eadg on Nov 18, 2004 20:59:16 GMT -5
Well, it's the truth (about a girl not being able to like you.) Lol about the Miata. You could probably punt my dream car as well. A blue Volkswagon New Beetle! It's not that girls don't like me.... I was just saying it's cool that when I like a girl that she like me back (kinda of sarcastic, since that's most of the time, it's understood when you go out with someone.) |
|
|
|
Post by Arya on Nov 18, 2004 21:00:38 GMT -5
It's not that girls don't like me.... I was just saying it's cool that when I like a girl that she like me back (kinda of sarcastic, since that's most of the time, it's understood when you go out with someone.) Yeah, I knew what you meant, I was just being my sarcastic self! |
|
but like why don't u want her to have alot of knowledge about sex?