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Post by Arya on Nov 12, 2004 19:01:13 GMT -5
Yea I don't recommend phone conversation (I recomend AIM if you both have it), but yeah face to face is good. Try to get a conversation going somehow.... Make him warm up to you again. It would help if he had internet access period. I'll try striking up a convo if I see him Monday. |
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Post by glittergal on Nov 12, 2004 22:41:05 GMT -5
ok, eadg, what do u think of girls?  |
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Post by eadg on Nov 14, 2004 13:31:26 GMT -5
well glitter... I think that girls are the most wonderful thing that God put on this good green earth. I even like girls more than steak and velveeta cheese & shells. I think that they can be a little confusing at times, but I realized that no matter how tough a girl acts, she is more frail than any guy. I respect y'all and hope one day to marry one of y'all and maybe even raise one of y'all although I think it may be easier to raise one of us.
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Post by Arya on Nov 14, 2004 13:52:12 GMT -5
well glitter... I think that girls are the most wonderful thing that God put on this good green earth. I even like girls more than steak and velveeta cheese & shells. I think that they can be a little confusing at times, but I realized that no matter how tough a girl acts, she is more frail than any guy. I respect y'all and hope one day to marry one of y'all and maybe even raise one of y'all although I think it may be easier to raise one of us. That's really sweet! I think boys are easier to raise. I work in the Children's Ministry @ church. I work in the Nursery or Toddler room, and it's always the girls I'm running (this in the toddlers of course) after. Or it's always the girls who get fussy in the nursery. But I love them all the same  |
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Post by **Ashlee** on Nov 14, 2004 19:03:34 GMT -5
do guys like girls better if they are really skinny? and what do u think about girls with piercings?
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Post by eadg on Nov 14, 2004 20:24:20 GMT -5
do guys like girls better if they are really skinny? and what do u think about girls with piercings? If a girl is just bones (like you can actually see her bones' outline) that's a bit unhealthy looking and not so appealing. We don't mind a girl to have some, well let's just say it... fat. It's not a problem. we can even think that a girl that is a little overweight is attractive. I like piecings. I think they look hot, but honestly, if you're fat, a belly-button ring may not be a good idea. It's my personal opinion that all girls have potential to be attractive if they take care of their body, partake in good hygenic rituals, and present themselves well (dress like you have some class). |
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Post by eadg on Nov 14, 2004 20:31:32 GMT -5
one more thing on piercings though... don't put a ton of holes in your body.... I would keep the ear piecings to a max of 3 per ear. I would also keep the face piercings (tongue, eyebrow, lip, nose) to a max of 2 or 3. All in all don't more than 10 holes max in your body. Then it gets kinda trashy looking.
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Post by **Ashlee** on Nov 14, 2004 21:27:49 GMT -5
thanx i have 11 holes in my body but i dont think it looks trashy and im anorexic.. and i get that i need help but im afraid that no guy will like me if im fat and i dont think ne like me now and i dunno what to do i cant stop i just want someone to like me
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Post by eadg on Nov 14, 2004 23:41:28 GMT -5
Guys rather have a girl with fat than an anorexic girl. You are hurting yourself for nothing. How can a guy take you out to eat if you don't eat. I know I don't understand exactly what you're going through, but anorexia isn't cool. where are you pierced? I know girls who have a lot of piercings, and 11 isn't bad, it just depends where.
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Post by **Ashlee** on Nov 14, 2004 23:55:59 GMT -5
im not like totally anorexic im like an anoreximc i eat less than 500 calories a day and if i go over that i throw it up.. and im going thru alot of **** plus i cut i just dont know what to do ne more.. umm i have each ear pierced 3 times then i have my cartilage pierced twice.. then i have my bellybutton,eyebrow and tongue done
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Post by Arya on Nov 15, 2004 18:46:26 GMT -5
This is still on the same thing I've been asking about My friend Corine (who has a class with Ryan), e-mailed me this: He'd seen me just the other day too. And this is what he did today: He totally ignored me like I wasn't there today! He just got deeper into his convo with another girl (between 4th and 5th). Then I saw him with his arm around a diff girl in between 5th and 6th! (I don't think he'd ever go out with her, she's not his type. I think she's a band friend.) But he seemed to be flirting with her. I'm totally and uterly confused. |
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Post by eadg on Nov 15, 2004 23:19:28 GMT -5
I think that this guy is just being a jerk (no offense, but he could at least give a "hi" or something).... how do you just start ignoring someone. He's obviously doing it on purpose. Maybe he's playing hard to get. (i don't know that guys do that, but...) Have you tries to talk to him? If so what did you say and what was his response?
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Post by eadg on Nov 15, 2004 23:23:37 GMT -5
im not like totally anorexic im like an anoreximc i eat less than 500 calories a day and if i go over that i throw it up.. and im going thru alot of (I am a potty mouth!!! Poco is mad at me!!!) plus i cut i just dont know what to do ne more.. umm i have each ear pierced 3 times then i have my cartilage pierced twice.. then i have my bellybutton,eyebrow and tongue done The piercings aren't bad, but you need to find a friend that you can just let it all out to. I see that your in a kind of rut in life and I think that if you get it out, that you would feel a bit better. Talk to me, I'll be honest in my opinions and give you the best advice I can. IM me on AIM if you have it. I wanna hep you out. I can't stand to see someone depressed. Hope I helped and hope I can help in the future. |
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Post by glittergal on Nov 16, 2004 12:41:05 GMT -5
well glitter... I think that girls are the most wonderful thing that God put on this good green earth. I even like girls more than steak and velveeta cheese & shells. I think that they can be a little confusing at times, but I realized that no matter how tough a girl acts, she is more frail than any guy. I respect y'all and hope one day to marry one of y'all and maybe even raise one of y'all although I think it may be easier to raise one of us. yay! u've gotta be one of the nicest sweetest guys I know |
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Post by Arya on Nov 16, 2004 16:42:57 GMT -5
I think that this guy is just being a jerk (no offense, but he could at least give a "hi" or something).... how do you just start ignoring someone. He's obviously doing it on purpose. Maybe he's playing hard to get. (i don't know that guys do that, but...) Have you tries to talk to him? If so what did you say and what was his response? I haven't been able to talk to him, b/c he's avoiding me, so he's nowhere near me. Anyways I think I've gotten over him. I want somebody who treats me for what I really am, and doesn't ignorn me like I was a grasshopper on the side of the road. |
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